Selling the sheep

Yarding up the last sheep in this old shearing shed.
The old shearing shed

Wool and meat have traditionally complemented grain production and farm income. Over the last few decades, farmers have been gradually decreasing sheep numbers. We have retained them to ensure an income, eat the stubble from the previous year’s harvest, and reduce the need for extensive and expensive chemical spraying. In the last few years, they have brought in good money, in wool and meat. Today, there were some interesting emotions involved as we sold the last of the sheep.

Drafting and counting sheep ready for loading onto the truck.
Getting ready to load sheep

We mourned the end of an era. It was also the end of a successful breeding program, shearing, drafting, ear tagging, treating fly-struck sheep, helping ewes give birth, pulling them out of dams, and treating their various illnesses. For The Farmer, it signals the end of many years of hard, physical work, and tonight, we are quietly celebrating our sheepless farm.

Loading sheep onto the truck.
Loading sheep onto the truck

Selling our last sheep means severing a daily commitment to being physically on the farm. We don’t need to go back to the farm and check them amidst our annual, seaside holiday.

stress and sheep

Reluctant to get on board

We won’t be getting phone calls in the early morning hours, on our short city break, reporting that our fences are down due to reasons beyond our control. One incident related to a car accident where the car rolled and ended in the paddock. Another was the result of a domestic where a couple was fighting over control of the steering wheel. This incident ended with the car careering through the fence where the sheep were grazing.

We won’t be chasing sheep through the cemetery late at night with neighbours whose farm borders the cemetery boundary. We won’t be wondering who is out on the road lighting fires and burning down fences in a methamphetamine-fuelled rage.

Leaving the farm

Soon after, we discovered that the sheep were going to another farm several hours away. That is some consolation because we had originally thought they would be going to the abattoirs.

Women, work, and financial independence

If I fully resign after this period of long service, I will lose my financial freedom. I have worked hard to get to where I am, but more than anything, I fear not having a fortnightly pay. Am I doing a disservice to women, everywhere?

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7 tips for leaving your happy place

Within the COVID-19 lockdown period, we moved house. Getting through the regional border (from the country to the city) was another story, despite my plea to the authorities that it was ‘essential’ travel. Another tenant was moving into the rental we were vacating and couldn’t while we were still there.

One of life’s great life challenges, aside from giving birth, relationship breakdown, new job, marriage, and death of a loved one, is moving house. We managed it relatively unscathed. My happy place was a little rented cottage in a quiet seaside suburb, surrounded by multimillion-dollar homes. It was one of the earliest homes built in City Beach and is now destined for demolition in a few years.

Is your happy place, a freedom from work place?

It was my happy place because I felt as though we were always on holiday, whether it was a short stay or an extended break. I didn’t do much ‘paid’ work here, at least overtime anyhow. It was therefore devoid of unproductive stress.

With a 400 m walk through a narrow laneway to a quiet, pristine Western Australian beach, we would rise early to walk towards Swanbourne, past the people exercising their dogs. In the evening, we would return to the ocean’s edge to take a final dip for the day, watch the sunset, and have a glass of wine.

reflection of sunset on beachshore

Its appeal was that there were no retail shops within a 4 km radius although there were several fancy cafes and restaurants. Walking was easier than driving, especially at night after an evening out at one of the local restaurants. Our favourites for dinner were Odyssea, and Hampton’s (although pricey), or Clancy’s. Clancy’s was great for a morning coffee too, after a run or walk. Just up the road, the Kiosk Cafe at Floreat Beach was quieter and perfect any time of the day. Rise is another great eatery but focuses more on pizza, pasta, salad, and seafood.

Imagine leaving it all then? Fortunately, we were moving to a house we bought in a suburb about a 7-minute drive away. Here are a few things to consider when you are moving from a house that is your happy place.

tips for moving from your happy place

  • The happy place is within you, and it will be at your new place too.
  • Think about your happy place as a direction rather than a place.
  • Realise that circumstances or places do not dictate your happiness!
  • See the move as an opportunity for a new start, and a new life.
  • Plan well ahead of time so that you eliminate any last minute panic dilemmas.
  • Create space where you like to retreat and enjoy spending time in, whether on your own or with your loved ones.
  • Make social connections in your new community as these are closely tied to personal happiness, safety, and security.
Leaving your happy place and creating another one

A house is merely a physical thing. It is up to you to find your new happy home and furnish it with love, thought, and things that bring you pleasure. Check out Ways to Make you Happier at Home. Stay tuned for my new happy house.

Describe your happy place! Where is it? What makes it such a happy place? Waterfalls do it for me especially this beautiful waterfall in Vietnam.

landscape of waterfalls

Birthday rain and season break

I promised the farmer I would bring rain on my birthday. We have been desperately waiting for some to fall so that we can be assured of some moisture to germinate the seed. We are planting wheat and barley. It has been raining all morning, signaling the start of the agricultural seeding season. The total rainfall was an inch or 25 ml. In the Wheatbelt, everyone celebrates a rain event.

Bucketing down
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Retirement goals

I am not quite sure if people set retirement goals, but considering how I will live my life for the next 30 years makes me think I might need to. Certainly not the first of my goals, but on recommendation from a doctor (to slow down my highly active and anxious mind) I enrolled in a course on Meditation and Mindfulness. I set my goals around the things that bring me the greatest pleasures: write, read, exercise, garden, travel, and socialise.

orange flowers

The most important goal or direction I will take is to develop and understand myself by doing inner work. This work is to ensure that my relationships with friends, family, and the community are undertaken in such a way that they are meaningful, purposeful, and loving. My intention is to slow life down, listen, and hear what people are saying.

I acknowledge the work of Robert A. Johnson. Through him, and his Jungian influence, I have learned more about people and relationships than I could have ever have learned from any other.

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Retirement rehearsal

Country cycling lane
Quiet country cycling lane

I’ve been rehearsing retirement these last few months. In saying that, I have been working; in the home, helping out on the farm and project managing a renovation. I guess I have never acknowledged these things as work. Mind you, I don’t get paid for any of those jobs (where payment for work creates the differentiation between them).

On my Home page, I referred to a set of goals that I hoped to achieve by creating this website. I was going to ‘document the transition from work to retirement’ and this is how it is looking thus far.

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Renovations under travel restrictions

Border shutdown

Under the COVID19 lockdown, there had to be clear and compelling reason for travel outside your residential border region. Other than for medical purposes, travel restrictions could be lifted where it relates to work and other essential services. It became apparent throughout the lockdown that doing renovations under restricted travel conditions during COVID19 were not mutually exclusive.

Pushing out the walls so that the room opens onto the garden
Pushing out the walls so that the room open onto the garden
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Taking a break from work during COVID19

A BREAK from work

I am taking a break from work after almost 30 years in the same job. The older I get, the less I am able to tolerate work stress and pressure. Right now, life is wonderful. But we are in the midst of a pandemic and countries all over the world have closed its borders. I am self-isolating at the farmhouse during COV19. In fact, I joke to others that I have been self-isolating for years because we are so remote.

Some of the stunning trees of the wheatbelt.
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City Beach and self-isolation

Despite the need for social distancing and self-isolation during Covid 19, the lawns at City Beach are filled with picnickers, couples, and families. There is an eerie feeling out there though and I cannot pinpoint it. I am sitting here alone, feeling miles away from the sunsets on the farm.

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Work pressure

Work pressure

How does one cope with prolonged work pressure? I sought medical leave when the stress and pressure were more than I could bear. Waking at 4 am and not being able to get back to sleep, thinking of what I needed to do to get through the next day meant that I was always worrying about work. I was undertaking complex tasks while sleep-deprived. This became extremely mentally challenging. My work involved travel between the campuses of the college; undertaking tiring, unforgiving, and often thankless tasks.

Business, Lady, Woman, Girl, Computer
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